A few words about the dating game...

Honestly? I'm scared to love again. To fall head over heals and have my heart ripped out. The world has changed, and not for the better.

People have become So disingenuous, SO insanely detached from reality. Stuck in their phones instead of seeing/ truly experiencing everything in the fullest. Following the narrative from whom ever screams loudest.. from whichever 5 second trend passes by or whichever self-entitled payed-for influencer tells them so..

Not to mention the levels of sheer promiscuity... people lost on the high of "attention", confusing attention with affection, thus, IT becoming almost like a self-perpetuating addiction..

Stuck in that which offers least resistance.

Stuck in that which we call comfort.... The place where bodies & minds sicken and souls come to die..

I'm an old soul with an old school personality..

Me? I'm all about effort. About making time, sharing joy, contact, conversation, discussion, experiences, chit chat, all that!!

But nowadays, people don't even dare to pick up a freaking phone because it i convenientces them or better yet: causes them ANXIETY!!!!!! What the phuck happend? How did we become this frail?! How did we let this happen???

Remember those moments when our hearts skipped a beat out of the sheer joy, someone called you specifically?

That moment when someone called your name, cus someone was on the other side of the line..

Fast forward to the last season of 2024..

We're offended by literally EVERYTHING!!! "We" tell the people, who's rights we are "fighting for", they are traitors to their kind, cus they do not agree with one's thinking.. 🤦🏽‍♂️

We try to phuck someone over before they get the chance to... I mean.. is this it? Is this what we have come to offer eachoter?! Uncertainties and second guesses!?!?

I long for love, I do. But love seems abscent in a world where man has lost the way to love himself.. And yet demands it... where people treat eachother as mere commodities and take eachothers time for granted, yet expect to be treated as some sort of godsend.. it's hard.

Start loving yourselves a bit more.. Fill Your cup. Make an effort.

We all want the same. We do..

But it's really a 'I water you, you water me'- kind of thing...

You reap what you sow. Benefits don't come without the effort people.

Pick up a book, move around, explore, live in service of others, talk, engage, try and enjoy classical music.. ask questions, really, I mean it.. Be inquisitive in LIFE, always try and offer a helping hand, you're allowed to fall in life, but don't not to stay down, we all make mistakes. It's what makes us human. But its the getting up part which matters.. truly.

And for phuck sake: Do good, have fun and try and make people smile: that shit is for free!!!

Cut off negative influences.

DONT TAKE PEOPLE FOR GRANTED!!

Make REAL connections, share laughs and experiences..

AND DONT BE AFRAID TO TAKE RISKS! No risk, no reward.

Watch yourself bloom...

Hollar at ya❤️

Ps. Read this: watapanawellness.com/set